Hi,

I am a 30 year old guy who has had a foot fetish for many years. However, as soon as I started liking feet I also started being embarrassed to go barefoot around other people. My feet used to be tanned but the tan of course faded and now my feet are really white, adding to the embarrassment.
I avoid the beach and am sometimes the only one wearing shoes at a party.
Do any guys or girls share my problem? Let me know.

Carey

W E L C M E !

Yes welcome! You do seem to have a problem though and even your name suggests you think bare feet are only acceptable when tanned. Forget that idea! You really are denying yourself a simple pleasure for no good reason. Also forget the idea of bare feet being a fetish, a turn-on or whatever, and just accept that you are comfortable that way. It is silly to be the only one wearing shoes at a party....I am nearly always the only one who is barefoot at parties...but all my friends know that's me and would be surprised if I wore shoes! I think you have built up going barefoot in your mind as some big deal. It isn't...just be yourself! (Hope you don't mind my expressing an opinion).